Been feeling rather vulnerable as of late, but this isn't really the place to talk about things like that. Even though I feel it should be. I don't want someone to use the things I write here as a way to attack me. Like how my old account was used.
Anyway, I digress. I'm vulnerable, and its kind of disconcerting. I'm starting to question my feelings of wanting to be a girl, then again I've always been questioning it. Like is it real, or is it just for cosplay purposes. Or is it something else.
All this is coupled with the feelings that I am a person who just can't do anything right. I try to save money, and add my credit card to the number (not really just add it and my savings together to let me know how much I have ready for getting out of small town life) so that I have more, and then am scolded for it in a way. But once again, I digress. The point I'm trying to get at is I don't feel that I'm the type of person that is capable of saving money. Because I do it, and then I have to use it just to make sure I can live. That's how its been for a while, well since about mid December. I had shitty hours for no apparent reason so it was hard for me to just pay my bills, but now I'm back on track to actually try saving. I hope.
It would be easier, I guess, if I had a friend that I could move in with. That way I could give my roommates the space they need, and have a space for myself, but where I'm at now. I don't really have a lot that I would consider friends anymore. Its a dwindling group, and I guess that's growing up, but I'm without family now. And that small group is having to replace it. I really wish there was more to do in this town besides the options of going to the multitude of bars.
There really isn't anything out there, and I have to say I'm jealous of my roommates relationship. I want someone that can hold me when I'm feeling vulnerable like this, and vice versa for her. I wouldn't allow her to feel vulnerable. Its the type of individual I am. But, my type of girl isn't in this town I live in now. Hell, I doubt I'll find my type of girl in a larger city. Or in America for that matter, but I gotta work with what I have. And that's a steadily dwindling savings account that has to be ready to pay moving expenses this summer, and virtually nowhere to go. I wouldn't be able to move to a new city on my own. I know this, but I just don't want to wait until someone else would be willing to join me.
has friends in the place he wants to go, plus his roommates(that are kind of my friends too. I've only really started hanging out with them recently.).
has friends where he lives, or that are at least close by so he has some companionship, and
has Zen. I don't really have anyone. My best friend is half a world away, and I miss him. Though, I think if he were still around we'd already be in a big city, and I would have a harder time building this little family of mine.
I guess what it all comes down to is...I WANT A GIRLFRIEND DAMN IT.
A nice Asian girl, who shares some of my interests, and is maybe a little shy. Then again, except for the asian part I just described myself. Why does our all-hot-otaku-girls-are-taken-or-there-is-something-wrong theory always hold true?
Anyway, this is just me rambling. Think nothing of it. Just want to get some stuff out, but I'm willing to try and talk about it. Gotta get more comfortable talking to others.
Later Days